Thursday, March 18, 2010

Hayden has gone to Heaven ^i^

Hayden passed away yesterday, March 17th, 2010, at 7:08 pm at Children's Hospital in Washington, DC. He had been in the hospital since January 25th, a day after his third birthday. I just don't know what to say right now except they took him from us. I'll explain more later, but they had to intubate him and when they did, they punctured his lung and he bled out. His vitals dropped and he coded. They worked on him for almost an hour and he was already gone. I got there 6 minutes after they pronounced him. Not fair. They took our baby from us. It was the worst ride home in my life. We had to clean out his room and we put it all in my car so her parents could take them home. To look in my rear view mirror and see his favorite cozy car - just killed me. I just can't stop crying. I will never hold my Hayden in my arms ever again. The memories are eating me up right now, but I know in time they will comfort me. My heart aches so bad for Chris and Trish. No mother should have to watch her child go thru that. She was the best mother. And Chris was the best dad. Hayden was very lucky and very loved by many.

I love you forever and always Hayden Isac Parsons. Eat some Oreo cookies with Jesus!

6 comments:

Faith said...

My heart aches for you, and for your family. My very deepest sympathy, and prayers continued for all...

Faith

Danette said...

Beth, you know how sorry I am for the loss of little Hayden. my prayers are with you and his parents as you go thru this difficult time. love ya

jen said...

I have been following your blog for some time and have checked every night to see what progress Hayden has been making. I am so terribly sorry to hear that your darling grandchild did not make it. There are no words, no thoughts, no sentiments that will make things better for you or his parents right now but I believe that knowing he is with the Lord, will bring you the comfort and stength to carry on in this difficult time. God bless you all.

Jen ..........South Africa

Beansieleigh said...

Oh Beth, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you, Chris, Trish, and all your family. May God comfort you all, as you now take care of, and find strength from, each other. ~tina

Lisa said...

I am so very, very sad for you and your family... I had gone to get something for Hayden and when I learned of his passing... it tore me up... I did not know that there was a Medical error...

May God bless you and keep you in the palm of his hand at this rough time.... I am sending you a package with a special book just for you..... will try to mail it this week.

James Paige said...

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I am new to this site but any grieving grandparent deserves some recognition. I am sure by your blogs and your caring nature that you are a truly gifted grandparent. Don't stop! Love like yours makes the world go round.